"Women’s
friendships and connections are traditionally viewed as strong,
faithful, ideally lifelong. But the reality is disturbing:
initially intimate friendships can suddenly turn sour and end
in dances of avoidance in which phone calls aren’t returned
and vague excuses are made. Magazine columnist Pryor candidly
examines the strangely conflicted nature of women’s friendships. “Women’s
love and commitment to one another is abounding,” she
writes, “yet when friendships end, we show little to
no respect or honor for that which has enriched, supported,
and even prolonged our lives.” The book is written in
a highly personal style and contains intimate anecdotes from
her own experience. Even more touching, she genuinely cares
for the women she has interviewed, who are heartbroken or confused
over the loss of longstanding friendships. Pryor makes some
pragmatic suggestions about how to draw back from problematic
friends yet communicate caring and respect. She shows that
the strongest friendships can come full circle and that while
circumstances and lifestyle differences can separate women,
it’s not impossible for reconnections to occur. Pryor
believes that emotional honesty is critical in allowing women
to feel good about themselves and their friendship decisions."
- Publisher’s
Weekly, Feb. 27, 2006
"In her frank, insightful book, Liz
Pryor offers empathetic portraits of lost friendships, revealing
the myriad ways women make and unmake friends. By gently
encouraging readers to listen to 'the truth that lives within
each of us,' she proves that even in the failure of a friendship,
there is opportunity for growth and renewal." - Emily Chenoweth, contributing author
to The Friend Who Got Away
“A bold, important,
groundbreaking book that just happens to read like a conversation with
your best girl friend. Liz Pryor has hit on the dirty little secret of
womankind and tells her own story and others’ in sprightly, smooth,
down-to-earth prose, alternately confiding and tough, always appealing.”
- Julie Smith, author of the Talba Wallis and Skip
Langdon novels
“Liz Pryor's engaging, readable book, like Sex and the
City, emphasizes the importance of female bonding and empowers women
to recognize and honor the profound importance of their friendships with other
women. Indeed, this important book fills the gap about an unspoken issue
that all thinking women, if they're honest, will admit to having experienced.
Liz Pryor is the kind of girlfriend any woman would be lucky to have,
and her book is full of the kind of wisdom that makes friendships with other
women so important.”
- Rosemary
Daniell, author of Secrets of the the Zona Rosa: How Writing (and Sisterhood)
Can Change Women's Lives
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